Lily wants to go to an Ivy League law school and then move to New York City and “a baby would totally fuck that up”. Lily said she doesn’t WANT to raise the child, and then I told her that she needs to take responsibility for having sex, she rolled her eyes at me, told me to “join us in 2022 where people don’t have to be moms until they want to and I DON’T WANT TO RIGHT NOW, I’M ONLY 20”. I told her that actions have consequences and Kara went off at me saying I sound like a “crazy forced birther”. She told me “no fucking way” because “I’m not going to Arizona State where fucking anyone can get in instead of because there is a big difference in prestige and I don’t to give up where I am going”. I told Lily what we can do is have her transfer here to a nearby state college and I will drop down to part time work to help while she continues school and we will raise the baby together. My husband said having the baby will ruin Lily’s life. I don’t disagree with that, but disliking that Matt cheated is not justifiable reason to murder a child. Lily said she “deserves a better baby daddy and better situation” if she has kids in the future and got angry when I told her that the time for her to decide if she was willing to have him as the father of her child was before she had sex with him, but she got very mad when I saw that and told me it is not her fault she was lied to and cheated on. I thought we were a Catholic family that like all Mexican families puts family above everything, but my husband in particular is doing the thing where he is justifying and rationalising the abortion because it is Lily and “I don’t want her life ruined”. She dumped him for cheating and now said she plans to abort the baby she is 10 weeks pregnant with and I am devastated because my husband and older daughter ”Kara” (22) plan to help her do this despite my objections that it is wrong of Lily to abort her baby out of inconvenience. My 20 year old daughter “Lily” is in her sophomore year of college at an Ivy league school out of state where she got scholarships/financial aid and got pregnant by her boyfriend “Matt” who she then discovered is cheating on her. Mods, please approve my post despite being a new account as my husband knows my main account.
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